MY REFLECTIONS AND ARTICLES IN ENGLISH
YOU DIDN’T CHOOSE EACH OTHER: YOU RECOGNIZED EACH OTHER
There’s a kind of meeting that doesn’t feel like a first meeting. It feels like a reunion. You look at the person and something inside you relaxes before the first sentence is even finished. That’s not peace.…
THERE’S A YOU INSIDE YOU, AND IT DECIDES BEFORE YOU NOTICE
Have you ever caught the exact second you gave up on a line? Not the gas station line. Life. That meeting that already had no fix left, that project that stalled, that conversation you postponed so many…
THE BODY KNOWS
Notice something. You walk into a meeting room and feel the air shift before anyone says a word. What is that? Nobody told you anything. There’s no sign on the wall. But the body already knows. Shoulders…
WHY YOU ALREADY KNOW WHAT TO DO — AND STILL DON’T DO IT
How many times have you known exactly what you needed to do, and done nothing about it? I’m not talking about laziness. Or a lack of discipline, that word people throw around like it’s both an excuse…
DO PEOPLE LEAVE YOUR ROOM BIGGER, OR SMALLER?
There’s a kind of room you already know, even if you’ve never walked into it. It’s the room where someone brings an idea, looks at the boss, and the boss already has the answer ready before the…
THE COMPANY THAT OUTSOURCED ITS OWN PATIENCE
Have you noticed how every job posting today demands “proven experience”? As if nobody could be born ready for a role the company itself never bothered to teach. As if learning on the job had become a…
THE DICTATORSHIP THAT FITS ON A DINNER TABLE
There’s a question I ask, every now and then, to whoever sits across from me ready to actually look at themselves: who was the first person to give you orders? I’m not fishing for the name of…
THE HUNGER NO MEAL SATISFIES
Have you ever noticed the exact moment your hand reaches for the phone before your eyes are even open? Nobody decides that. The body already went and did it. I spent years watching people try to change…
WHAT NEVER COMES BACK
On rebuilding after the sacred has been breached — and why repair is never the same as return There is a day after. Nobody talks about it, because the culture of instant reconciliation prefers to jump straight…
THE RIGIDITY YOU CALL INTEGRITY
There’s a line a lot of highly competent people repeat to themselves like a rosary, and it goes something like this: I don’t know how to play that game, and I’m not going to learn, because that’s…
