MY REFLECTIONS AND ARTICLES IN ENGLISH
WHO HANDED YOU THE RULER THAT MEASURES YOUR VOICE
The air conditioning is too strong and the table is too big for the number of people sitting at it. Someone asks: “tell me about a time you led something.” And the answer starts flawless. Data, context,…
THE WATER NOBODY WENT LOOKING FOR
Have you ever gotten close to something that was supposed to be good and felt your body wilt before you even understood why? It wasn’t the thing. It was the distance between it and the map you’d…
WHAT DO YOU LEAVE IN THE OTHER PERSON’S ACCOUNT AFTER YOU TALK TO THEM?
Ever notice how some people leave a room and the room feels different? It’s not charisma. It’s what stayed behind. A sentence, a way of looking at someone, a “keep going, I want to hear this” dropped…
YOU DIDN’T CHOOSE EACH OTHER: YOU RECOGNIZED EACH OTHER
There’s a kind of meeting that doesn’t feel like a first meeting. It feels like a reunion. You look at the person and something inside you relaxes before the first sentence is even finished. That’s not peace.…
THERE’S A YOU INSIDE YOU, AND IT DECIDES BEFORE YOU NOTICE
Have you ever caught the exact second you gave up on a line? Not the gas station line. Life. That meeting that already had no fix left, that project that stalled, that conversation you postponed so many…
THE BODY KNOWS
Notice something. You walk into a meeting room and feel the air shift before anyone says a word. What is that? Nobody told you anything. There’s no sign on the wall. But the body already knows. Shoulders…
WHY YOU ALREADY KNOW WHAT TO DO — AND STILL DON’T DO IT
How many times have you known exactly what you needed to do, and done nothing about it? I’m not talking about laziness. Or a lack of discipline, that word people throw around like it’s both an excuse…
DO PEOPLE LEAVE YOUR ROOM BIGGER, OR SMALLER?
There’s a kind of room you already know, even if you’ve never walked into it. It’s the room where someone brings an idea, looks at the boss, and the boss already has the answer ready before the…
THE COMPANY THAT OUTSOURCED ITS OWN PATIENCE
Have you noticed how every job posting today demands “proven experience”? As if nobody could be born ready for a role the company itself never bothered to teach. As if learning on the job had become a…
THE DICTATORSHIP THAT FITS ON A DINNER TABLE
There’s a question I ask, every now and then, to whoever sits across from me ready to actually look at themselves: who was the first person to give you orders? I’m not fishing for the name of…
