STOP TRYING TO BE GOD IN THE LIFE OF THE ONE YOU CLAIM TO LOVE
A silent murder is happening right now, at this very moment, in thousands of relationships around the world. It involves no physical violence. It leaves no visible marks. But it is lethal. It is the murder of…
FROM MAP TO LIVING TERRITORY: THE TRANSFORMATION BEYOND METHODOLOGIES (PART 3 OF 3)
THE JOURNEY SO FAR Over the past 48 hours, we’ve questioned some of the most deeply rooted certainties in the human development market. In Part 1, we deconstructed the “comfort zone” fallacy — that colorful circle diagram…
THE TEST THAT DOESN’T DEFINE YOU: WHY DISC, MBTI AND THE ENNEAGRAM REVEAL HOW YOU SEE YOURSELF, NOT WHO YOU ARE (PART 2 OF 3)
Recapping Where We Left Off Yesterday, in Part 1, we jointly dismantled one of the most repeated (and least questioned) concepts in the development market: the fallacy of the “comfort zone”. We saw that the coloured-circle diagram—ubiquitous…
THE ILLUSION OF STRATEGIC PRESENCE
There is a corporate fantasy that haunts executives like a shadow: the belief that merely being present is enough. Packed meeting rooms, congested agendas, an endless sequence of encounters where faces meet, words are spoken, decisions seemingly…
THE CLOSED NOTEBOOK: WHEN DEVELOPMENT TOOLS BEGIN TO IMPRISON US (PART 1 OF 3)
The Paradox of Tools I have been working in human and organizational development for 27 years. In nearly three decades, I have witnessed extraordinary transformations — and I have also seen brilliant people remain trapped precisely by…
WHO YOU NEED TO STOP BEING TO FINALLY CHANGE
Yesterday, I wrote about why “never again” is the most honest lie we tell ourselves. I thank everyone who read, shared, and reflected. But some people sent me questions, and the one that caught my attention the…
THE TYRANNY OF HOPE: WHEN WAITING FOR THE RELATIONSHIP TO CHANGE BECOMES COMPLICITY WITH ONE’S OWN SUFFERING
There is an illusion so deeply rooted in human experience that few dare to question it: the belief that love, in itself, transforms. That it is enough to wait, to understand, to forgive one more time—and the…
YOU DON’T NEED REPLACEMENT. YOU NEED RECONSTRUCTION.
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HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS: BEYOND THE MYTH OF COMPLETENESS
What if everything we’ve been taught about healthy relationships was fundamentally wrong? We grew up hearing that a healthy relationship is one where two halves meet to form a whole. Where conflicts are rare because “we understand…
WHEN PROFESSIONAL COMPETENCE TURNS INTO AN IDENTITY PRISON
There is a silent phenomenon in corporate decision-making rooms, in high-level selection processes, in executive boards around the world. It is not about a lack of talent—quite the opposite. We are facing a generation of professionals who…
