ALMOST BEYOND

“So then because thou art lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will spew thee out of my mouth.” Revelation 3:16.

Even worse than the conviction of no and the uncertainty of maybe is the disillusionment of an almost. The almost is an emotional limbo that holds us in a state of paralysis, fueled by the fear of failure and doubt. These choices that lead us to the almost, choices of a lukewarm life, where opportunities are glimpsed but never fully seized, are the cradle of unrealized dreams and unexplored potentials. The lukewarm life, which many of us choose out of fear of the unknown, is not life in its fullness. It is a diluted existence, where moments of true passion and fulfillment are rare, replaced by a conformity that suffocates the soul and spirit.

In this scenario, the courage to be happy seems like a scarce commodity. True happiness demands risks. It requires us to leap into the unknown, to confront our fears, and above all, to be willing to fail. Because in failure, the opportunity to learn, to grow, and to reinvent oneself is born. Passion burns, yes, and love can drive one mad. But would human existence be so rich and deep without these experiences? Life without these intense emotions would be like a rainbow in shades of gray, a landscape devoid of color and life.

Faith, that belief in the possibility of moving mountains, is more than an act of hope; it is a challenge to inertia. It is not about denying the reality of limitations, but about recognizing that within each of us lies a force capable of turning dreams into reality. Preemptive defeat, that resignation to failure before even trying, is the true waste of human existence. Every mistake carries within it the seed of forgiveness, and every failure, the chance for a new beginning. The impossible love? For it, time brings healing and the possibility of a new encounter, perhaps more true and stronger.

To shield an empty heart, to spare the soul, are strategies of self-preservation that only widen the chasm within us. A romance unlived, a word left unsaid, an opportunity not seized—these are the true sources of regret. The suffocating longing and the accommodating routine are enemies of what makes life worth living. The fear of trying is what truly prevents us from flying.

Doubting destiny and believing in oneself is the first step to a life of fulfillment. More than dreaming, one must act. More than planning, one must execute. And more than waiting, one must live. Because, though he who almost dies is alive, he who almost lives is already dead. The fullness of existence is not found in the middle ground, but in the ability to fully embrace each moment, each challenge, each opportunity to love, to err, and above all, to grow.

This is the call to all of us: to step out of complacency, out of ready-made answers and certainties, facing our fears and living fully, recognizing within ourselves who we truly are by our singular nature of being. Life, in its essence, is a tangle of questions that can only be answered by the rich and diverse experiences within the vastness of our mere temporal perception, which allows only one chance to live, and that happens only when we allow ourselves to live. Every courageous decision, every step into the unknown, every risk taken brings us closer to the true essence of what it means to be human. May we choose the path of passion, of fulfillment, and of full happiness, even in the face of uncertainties and possible failures. Because it is in vulnerability, in confronting the almost, that we discover our true strength and potential.

Here, by brushing the reflections of Sartre and diving into the essence of freedom and knowledge, we invite each one to an introspective journey. A journey that not only questions but also transcends the limits of what we believe to be possible. Freedom, in its purest state, challenges us to be the architects of our own lives, to paint our destinies with the colors of passion, love, and courage. Knowledge, in turn, serves as the brush that allows us to shape our wildest dreams, transforming the emptiness of “almost” into a vibrant canvas of achievements.

However, this journey is not without obstacles. It requires an unwavering dose of self-awareness and a steadfast willingness to venture into the unknown, always guided by the internal compass of our true essence. With each step forward, it is imperative to look inward, to recognize and embrace our vulnerabilities, our fears, and above all, our deepest desires. This is the fuel that feeds the flame of transformation, one that not only illuminates the path but also warms the soul.

In the meantime, the real question that emerges is not “what do we fear losing?” but “what do we yearn to gain?”. Life, in its infinite wisdom, teaches us that every ending is just a new beginning, every conclusion, a doorway to new possibilities. Therefore, as we stand at the crossroads between the comfort of the known and the call of the unknown, let us choose the path that leads us to growth, to evolution, and ultimately, to our purest form of expression.

May this text not be just a reading, but an invitation to action. A call for each of us to rise against the tide of conformity and embrace, with all our hearts, the beauty and complexity of life. I encourage you to reflect on the areas of your life where “almost” has kept you hostage and to take the courageous step towards the full realization of your potential. The journey beyond “almost” is a voyage of self-discovery, of facing fears, and above all, of self-love and compassion.

Remember, fulfillment is not a destination to be reached, but a way of traveling. Every day, we have the opportunity to choose courage over comfort, action over hesitation. May we embrace this freedom with all that we are, turning every “almost” into a powerful affirmation of our ability to truly live. May this be the legacy we choose to leave behind: a life lived not in the shadow of “almost,” but in the bright light of “fully.”

Flying Beyond Limits

On the wings of freedom, we soar,

Over seas of doubts and dreams, we glide.

In the infinite knowledge, we dive,

In search of stars that, for love, we call.

Each choice, a path; each step, a story,

In the weavings of destiny, we weave our glory.

With freedom as our compass, knowledge as our light,

We build bridges, tear down walls, carry the cross.

May our lives be more than an almost,

May our dreams, from paper, leap and become.

For those who in freedom their soul imbibes,

In the sea of knowledge, deeply, they drink.

And thus, step by step, choice after choice,

We build a world where love finds solace.

For free is the one who knows, and knows who loves,

And in the end, it is love that our soul craves.

(Marcello de Souza)

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